I wrote a quick post on the Wooden Spoons Blog about perfection and with an example from this recipe. No, this recipe and photos are not perfect, far from. I feel that occasionally I fall into this rational where I begin to sink into a, “if only I had this” mentality. If only I had that camera, if only I had that kitchen, if only, if only, if only. I say it all the time when I’m on pinterest.
I began to ask myself why: Why was I in this mentality? Considering I’m a trained musician, I think the answer is a fairly obvious one. The rational is engrained. I can’t begin to count how many times I’ve heard, “practice makes perfect” because we are always striving for a perfect performance. When that doesn’t happen, the “if only” statements come out: “If only I practiced more or if only my reed didn’t suck.”
As mentioned above, I’ve carried that mentality over to everything I do. My photography is a constant stream of “not good enough” and “if only” statements and while perfection in photography is a little more personal, it still feels like it’s there.
Why am I writing this? I made these spring rolls from odds and ends that were left over in my apartment. They were so pretty, that I knew I wanted to share but I realized that my photography space had been converted to a makeshift desk, all of my dishes were packed, and my apartment looked like a big gust of wind came through and displaced everything (and if I’m being honest, even without moving my living spaces occasionally look like this).
I managed to scoot my computer equipment out of the way enough to put a background up and had one cutting board left out. I started snapping photos and looked at my screen to see photos I rather liked. Then I pulled back, saw the scene around the photo, and started to laugh. Here I was staring at good photo that is surrounded by utter mess and chaos.
I think in way, perfection needs to be thrown out and replaced with growth. I’ve always liked the term growth because it implies that there will always be room and always be movement while perfection implies that there is a level at which one has achieved the ability to stop growing. With photography, it’s always trying something new whether it be a different angle or different light source.
This also works with cooking. My friend asked me the other day how I come up with recipes and it’s something I’ve thought a lot about because I didn’t grow up cooking. In fact, when M and I started dating, I was horrible (there use to be evidence of that on this blog but I’ve since pulled those post into drafts for my own personal reminder). But, I continued to learn, follow recipes, and experiment. I never settled and continued to grow in my ability to cook and be more comfortable in the kitchen.
Life happens, sometimes in crazy ways. I may never have any of the kitchens on pinterest I’ve lusted after or the fancy new camera that is a bit out of my price range, but that doesn’t mean I should stop trying to grow. In fact, I take my current haves and make them a challenge to do the most growing. There should never be an end goal, just a journey of growth.
- 1/2 pound asparagus
- 1 teaspoon olive oil
- Dressing*
- 2 tablespoons fresh squeezed orange juice
- 1 tablespoon walnut oil
- 2 teaspoons honey
- pinch red chili flakes
- 3-4 handfuls spinach, lettuce, or Asian greens
- 1 cup cooked quinoa
- 6-10 rice paper wrappers
- Light grill. Toss asparagus with olive oil and place on grill. Cook until lightly charring and soft. Remove from grill and let cool slightly. Slice asparagus into strips and slice strips in half, horizontally, to fit into spring rolls.
- Combine orange juice, walnut oil, honey, and pinch of red chili flakes in a mason jar or other container that has a lid. Shake well and test for chilis- add more if desired.
- In a large bowl, toss together greens and cooked quinoa. Drizzle dressing over and toss until mixture is coated.
- Set up a rolling station with grilled asparagus, quinoa mixture, rice papers, a dish of hot water larger enough to hold the spring rolls, and a cutting board.
- Soak the rice paper for 10-15 seconds (you don’t want it too soft when taking it out of the water but pliable enough to roll.) Place rice paper on a cutting board and load with quinoa mixture and grilled asparagus. Roll, tuck, and fold in sides as you go. Continue with remaining ingredients.












I love these!! Chili orange! Holy yum!
Thanks for the good reminder, Erin. I do this quite often, too, always wanting everything to be perfect, when in fact, it’s better to just live and grow. xo
I get so competitive with myself and others, I have to remind myself to just chill and stop worrying so much!
My pictures are never perfect, but I’ve learned a lot from the Wooden Spoons blog! Also, I’ve never seen square rice paper wraps. Cool!
Love it, Katrina!
I totally agree with you – it’s something that I’ve been thinking about a lot recently. I know that I’m never going to obtain that standard of perfection that I set myself so what I actually need to do is learn how to grow and how to keep striving for something better without beating myself up about not being perfect.
I just told my fiance that we are the harshest critics of ourselves. It’s good to set standards, just not onces that aren’t obtainable!
I have never made anything with rice paper wrappers but everytime I see a recipe I think to myself “Why haven’t you done this?!”. Ok, I’m going to now. Pretty recipe!
Yes! Seriously, you can roll anything in them!
Love this. And I totally want to see the zoomed-out photo, with the mess around the gorgeous photo 😉
It’s on the WSK blog 🙂
Amen! Beautiful spring rolls and inspiring words!
These summer rolls look so amazing! I love the idea of combining asparagus and quinoa in a crunchy roll. Yay1
What a wonderful post, Erin. I love your creative use of the ingredients that you had on hand–surprising and unusual, but absolutely delicious! And your words couldn’t ring more true…growth and learning, not perfection–such an important (and difficult) lesson, that I know I am constantly striving to live out. Thanks for this 🙂
I’m glad I’ve grown in my creativity of food because a year ago I would have looked in my fridge and though, “Uh, I have nothing!” 😉 Thank you for the kind words!
a really good post and a good reminder of what is important – growing always. who knows where that will come from or what totally different path it might take one on but staying open to it all. I so dislike the word perfection myself for much the reason you stated. it is nice to have someone else speak since few do and many seem to feel it is a worthy and attainable goal.
Thank you for the reassuring words, Jacquie. I’ve never understood how so many people can say that perfection is a good goal.
I made these tonight and they were absolutely delicious. I will definitely be making them again!
Yes- awesome! So glad you liked them!
I have photo envy. These are glorious pictures, it really makes me want to eat my laptop!
An absolutely beautiful idea! I’ve seen a ton of posts for asparagus season, but this is definitely one of the most innovative. Thanks for sharing 🙂
I love this post! I needed to read this right now…These photos, and spring rolls, are stunning because of, not in spite of, their lack of fancy ingredients and staging 🙂
I am always looking for healthy things to bring to work to eat for lunch, and all of your spring rolls look amazing! Do they keep well? I’m wondering if I could make a batch on Sunday night and then pack them through the week. Love your blog!
I love this perspective. It’s so easy to get caught up in modeling my dream home or kitchen in my head without being thankful for what I have now! Thanks for the reminder and the delicious recipe!
These look so refreshing and perfect for the summer! I’ve never made spring rolls before, but this makes me want to give it a try! Thanks for sharing 🙂
thanks for the wonderful inspiration! i made these today with broccoi and red rice.
I just found your recipe on pinterset and it looks delicious and can’t wait to try it but I had a question about the ingredients. In the recipe you have listed sesame oil but in the directions you say walnut oil. which one did you use and does it matter? I have not used them before. Thank you.
I updated it- I used walnut oil (sesame oil would be a bit too overpowering.) However, the walnut oil doesn’t add a lot of flavor so you could always use a type of oil you had on hand!